Audrey Marie Wingert Boyer
Died 28 years ago today, December 18, 1981
I can't believe it has been 28 years. I always think about her more this time of year, not just because she died near Christmas, but because of what Christmas meant to her. Christmas Eve was always a special treat to her because all of the family would gather at her home. About a week before she went home to be with the Lord, Katie spent the day with her and they put up the Christmas tree and the nativity set. My mother-in-law expressed a great deal of joy and how much fun they had decorating. Katie was four years old.
She struggled a few years with diabetes and heart disease, and she died suddenly of a heart attack, without notice or warning, and it was a shock to all of us. It was interesting....the night we lost her, we left the hospital and went to the house, the gifts were all wrapped and labeled, the house was clean and everything organized...it was as if she knew it was her time to go and she had everything for Christmas Eve all prepared for us. She was only 61 years old....the age I am now, seems so young...and we were not ready for her to go.
I was very young when David and I married, and immature I might add. My dear mother-in-law was always good to me, but it took me several years to truly appreciate her for the special woman she really was. She was a true, hard working farm woman and she and my father-in-law raised seven children. She worked very hard, loved and cared for her family, but most importantly she had a very sweet love of the Lord. Audrey (always Mrs. Boyer to me) cared for her children and was a submissive wife. She always took the children to church even while receiving harsh criticism from my father-in-law. It was Audrey's continued faithfulness to love, lead, teach, and get the children to church that now leaves seven children, many grandchildren, and great grandchildren who are faithful Christians today.
She was a very talented seamstress, possessed a funny sense of humor, and was non-judgmental of others. She was also one of the most calm, laid back women I have ever known. She leaves a very worthy legacy. She continues to be missed by all of us. We all loved you dearly.